Sober Summer

Do you find yourself worrying about summer and your teenage son? Do you fret about what he is going to do all day? Has he used or abused drugs before?

Join the club. Thousands of parents experience those very same worries every summer…with good reason.

Research shows that the unsupervised time while you work or take care of your younger kids, hanging out and getting together with friends during summer can be a recipe for trouble.

Fire Mountain offers a solution that may work for your family. Sober Summer is a 9-week intensive program for teen boys ages 13-17 emphasizing:

  • Sobriety and natural highs
  • Emotional intelligence and maturity
  • Healthy masculinity
  • Relationships that value fun and connection without the need for drugs
  • Increasing knowledge about drugs and how they affect the teen brain
  • Adventure, fun and healthy risk taking (instead of seeking thrills through drugs and alcohol)
  • Developing an individual identity rooted in your son’s unique character, interests and talents (rather than a set of values and behavior set by the drug culture)

Why a special summer program?

Summer can be a risky time for teens. According to the NationalYouthAnti-DrugCampaign: Read more…

  • Teens with unsupervised time are three times more likely to use marijuana or other drugs.
  • More teens try marijuana for the first time in the summer months than any other time of the year.
  • Each day in June, July and August, approximately 6,100 young people try marijuana for the first time; that’s 38 percent more per day than during the rest of the year.

 

My kid mostly smokes pot. Isn’t it just an expected part of adolescence?
This is a common sentiment based on old information. Increasing THC levels along with new science have brought forth new issues and a deeper understanding. Read more…

  • More kids enter treatment with a primary diagnosis of marijuana dependence than for all other illegal drugs combined,  – NationalYouthAnti-DrugCampaign:
  • “[I]n the 1970s and 80s, the active ingredient in marijuana, THC, was at 3.5 percent. Today, the THC found in most marijuana averages more than 7 percent. But specific techniques can skyrocket the amount of THC to as high as 27 percent. Today’s marijuana is much more powerful and much more addictive than it was a generation ago.”  – U.S. Office of National Drug Control Policy

 

Is my teen a good fit for your program?
Sober Summer can be particularly beneficial for teens who: Read more…

  • Tend to make poor decisions when they have a lot of unstructured, unsupervised time.
  • Are using drugs or alcohol. (Most teens are using three times more than parents realize).
  • Have been through other programs and need the support during the summer.
  • Are not responding to family rules and boundaries.
  • Hung in there just long enough to make it through the school year but have started making questionable decisions and are heading down a path that could threaten their well-being and next year’s school performance.

What will my teen be learning and doing at Sober Summer? 

The ultimate goal is that your son to experience and internal shift in the areas of personal responsibility, confidence, self-esteem and commitment to sobriety. Read more…

On a skills level, he will learn to communicate more effectively (instead of lashing out to get what he wants), manage stress better (instead of turning to drugs or other destructive behaviors), and find other ways to satisfy the adolescent need for risk and self-reliance (rock climbing, rafting, living in the woods, etc.).

 

The Sober Summer Curriculum is called 12 Steps, 13 Values, 14 Challenges

12 Steps Your teen will learn and implement the first few steps in a 12 step program modified for teens. Read more…

The full 12 steps takes months, even years to complete. So, 2-3 steps is appropriate for 10 weeks. He will attend local meetings when possible and work on exercises 1-3 times per week while at camp.  Many people ask if the higher power or God aspect of NA is required. No. Identifying a higher power is a personal thing. We do explain that a higher power can be anything that works (the best part of self, nature, one’s values, or God). Most NA participants say that identifying some kind of higher power is key to their sobriety. But, it is not required.

13 Values

Integrity, Healthy Masculinity, Self-Care, Compassion, Community, Commitment, and Courage are the first seven. The boys, through a deliberate set of exercises, will decide the last six.  The last six may be different for each teen.

Your son’s therapy and coaching will arise from his identified values, the group values, your son’s history and input from you and your family. Your son and his therapist will develop a Master Plan that will address his needs and goals for change and healing. Individual and group therapy will happen 3-6 times each week.

14 Challenges

Healthy risk is an important developmental aspect of adolescence. Many teens report that doing drugs provides excitement, novelty and fun. Replacing drugs with healthier option can be the key to your son making better choices. At Sober Summer, your son will:

  • climb at least one 14,000 foot peak,
  • raft a class III-IV river,
  • learn to rock climb,
  • earn certification in Wilderness First Aid,
  • complete a solo,
  • mountain bike,
  • build a composting toilet,
  • train in Martial Arts, and more.

 

What does the weekly schedule look like?

(The following schedule may change slightly due to availability of outfitters, weather conditions, and special event instructors learn more Read more…

(such as Wilderness Medicine instructors). But, this itinerary is the gist and the goal.)Week 1:Orientation and Group Bonding. This includes:

  • Icebreakers and games to increase comfort and emotional safety during transition
  • Agreements, rules and expectations of the program
  • Nightly campfire fun and storytelling
  • Skill building for the 14 challenges

Begin group and individual therapy. Your son will:

  • Meet and get to know therapist and coaches
  • Identify his 6 values
  • Develop a master plan
  • Attend on and off-site Narcotics Anonymous meetings

Fitness and preparation for 14 Challenges

  • Daily exercise (Hiking, Martial Arts, Tai Chi, Rock Climbing and/or Yoga)
  • Break in boots and learn how to pack backpacks and properly use all gear
  • Map and compass training, knot tying, Leave No Trace and Ecology of the area

 Week 2

Stewardship projects. All students and staff will:

  • Build a composting toilet for continued use at Vagabond Ranch
  • Collaborate with Vagabond Ranch staff to plan repairs, upgrades and fire mitigation projects.

Wilderness medicine, Rescue and First Aid. Your teen will become certified in Wilderness First Aid and CPR. They may also train in basic mountain and river rescue techniques.

Week 3

Family Calls and Family Session: By phone or Skype you will talk to your son, receive an update from his therapist and begin to address issues to resolve before he returns home in August

Survival Skills. What to do if lost in the woods. This is a week long training in outdoor survival skills. Kids will learn to keep themselves alive with little to no equipment, how to build a fire without matches, make a safe shelter, find clean water and food, and ensure best chances of rescue.

Continue group and individual therapy

  • Meet and get to know therapist and coaches
  • Identify his 6 values
  • Develop a master plan
  • Attend on and off site Narcotics Anonymous meetings and group sessions

Weeks 4-9

All participants will engage in:

Outdoor Skills and Activities

Backpacking, Mountaineering, Rock Climbing, Hiking, Camp Skills, Cooking, Search and Rescue Drills and Rafting/Canoeing, Slackline Training, Stewardship of the land and property, and Art in Nature projects.

Group and individual therapy and coaching

  • Continue work therapist and coaches
  • Evaluate how behavior and feelings match with the 6 values
  • Family work and group sessions
  • Attend on and off-site Narcotics Anonymous meetings

Week 10: Preparation for returning home.

Your son will work with his therapist and coaches to:

  1. Set attainable goals for the upcoming year
  2. Create a going home contract in cooperation with parents and therapist
  3. Reflect consciously on his realizations and growth over the summer
  4. Spend quality time with new friends to close and say goodbye

 

Do you take violent offenders?

No. Violent offenders and sex offenders need specialized care. All participants are screened through an application process.

 Where is Sober Summer?

Throughout the mountains, plains and towns of Colorado Rocky Mountain Region. You will receive the finalized itinerary when we have finished booking all permits and outfitters. If you are out of state, your son will fly into Denver.

My son is/was already in your Sober Home. Can he go to Sober Summer?

Yes if your son is in/was a resident in the Sober, please call for special pricing.

How do I apply and get more of my questions answered?

Please call the office at 303-443-3343 or email info@firemountainprograms.com. We will answer all of your questions and walk you through the application process should you decide to move forward. Putting your kid in a program is a big decision and we want you to feel as informed and comfortable as possible.

How much does it cost?

Tuition for the 9 weeks (63 days) is $10,900. We do offer discounts for early sign up. (Save $1000 before March 1 and $600 before April 1, and $400 by May 1.) You may break the tuition up into 2 payments. For loan options call 303-443-3343.

Register by March 1          $9,900                                   

Register by April 1            $10,300

Register by May 1              $10, 500

After May 1                            $10,900

 

 

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